I watched this video not too long ago and it reminded me of the hard conversation I once had to have with my love. The hard conversation of letting him know of my less than conventional sexual interest. I love her message and it is worth a look for anyone who has ever had to have a hard conversation with someone. The little girl’s response reminds me of how my boyfriend reacted. It was a much bigger deal to me than it was to him.
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January 14, 2014 at 3:13 am
All depends to whom you talk about your secret. Some open minded people can react to it like girl in pink dress, for others it may be impossible to accept your wired preferences.
I always suggest to people having non conventional preferences to look for people who can accept them, and avoid narrow-minded ones. Your boyfriend reaction was neutral, but it could be different.
I wouldn’t try to date a girl who is a total anti-smoking campaigner.
She would never understand my preferences, and she couldn’t be a partner to mine fantasies. Some people are compatible, some other are not.
January 14, 2014 at 6:55 am
I totally agree… I also am at a different place today because of how my boyfriend reacted. Best to find someone that can accept you, quirky kinks and all.
July 16, 2014 at 12:38 am
I think the word is RESPECT. We need to respect other people’s lives and preferences as far as this story is concerned. I’m not saying the smoking is bad. For others it is, for others maybe not. But for as long as you know where is the right place and when is the right time to smoke, there is no problem with that. –Just an opinion.